WHat every Girl should Know.

Here is my newest article which i titled,''what everygirl should
know..kindly read and digest.

1. Many African ladies will end up singles for
life because of media exposure- it is so
disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes
on a mobile phone from morning to night,
only to raise it up to focus on television to
watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate
this lady's mindset aside how to live a fake
celebrity life being promoted on television
channels?
2. Many African ladies no
w dislike cooking
and home chores just because they had been
totally brainwashed by movies showcasing
men playing the role of women in a family,
and due to excessive exposure to modern
media that promotes gender-equality in a
destructive way that's aimed at destroying
the unique African family setting that made
our previous African marriages everlasting
and envious to the westerns. Now, with this
attitude, how do you expect a African man
to desire to marry when he knows he is only
buying more headache and trouble than
helper for himself?
3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have
observed, you will discover that most men
dislike excessive makeup, and more don't
even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do away
with it cos it speaks ill of a lady even though
so many men will applaud and complement
you for looking like an Egyptian mummy. A
slight makeup is okay; but if you are out for
marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent
and serious-minded, except you are still
living in your high school life and not
thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every
Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose
marriage to a lady whose phone is always
talking and laughing with unserious calls.
You may not be a playgirl, but he would
judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don't Bring Any Value Into The Life
Of Men You Date or Are Dating- because your
best friend married without contributing
anything to the man that finally married her,
doesn't mean it will work for you that way.
Think, work towards equipping yourself so
that you can be a value and also add value
to his life to convince him that you are
worth committing to. Adding value to his life
isn't by giving him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his best friend,
helping him attain his goals in life, lending
him moral, mental and spiritual support, and
by not just being a liability that only bring
requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life- how do you
expect to find a husband when you still
allow your clique of friends to be dictating
which man you meet is worthy of your love
and which is not? When will you wake up
and face the fact that those your best
friends even though they cherish you,
wouldn't want you to marry before them or
to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As
a single lady who has not been taken to the
altar, you need to reserve some things for
your husband to be, especially your body,
respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the
past, men rushed to marry to get certain
things or privileges they had been constantly
denied while being single. Such privileges
include and not limited to: constant sex and
companionship, good food and tidied home,
etc. But today, a single man gets even the
best and of course more of constant sex,
good food and excellent home-keeping more
than his married counterparts, so tell me
how the hell you want him to desire to
marry you when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife while
being his girlfriend? And the most painful
part of it all is that he knows that you are
prepared to cut down on sex supply,
cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries
you, so why would he not want you to
remain his girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly- in your
attempt to look sexy, adorable and maybe
appealing to guys, you have derailed from
appealing to appalling. In fact you look more
whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than
adorable. Your dressing style determines
who gets attracted to you most times. If you
dress high school, only high school-thinking
guys will be attracted to you, and if you
dress excessively sexy and provocative, only
randy men will come to you for urgent
satisfaction of their immediate sex urge, so
don't be fooled by media hyping of certain
kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain
set of ladies you wouldn't like to be
associated with, be careful. Remember, not
all clothes that look sexy are good for a
seriously searching for a soul mate single
lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and
Good Home Upbringing- definitely, your 'hot
girl', 'pretty girl', 'sexy girl' looks will win
you so many men; both the good, and the
bad, but your inner beauty, your character
and manner are the things that will
determine whether any of those men would
stay or run after accomplishing their evil
missions. In order words, do away with
nagging, being possessive, challenging with
men in negative ways, the mentality of
'what a man can do a woman can do better',
a lie devil has used to deceive and destroy so many ladies today.