Sunday 21 July 2013

MUST READ! Senetor Ahmed Sani Yariman Bakura Replies His Critics about Child Marriage

Following the controversy that has been raised for legalising child marriage, many finding a whole lot of fault in this and many ready to fight...Well Senetor Ahmed Sani Yariman Bakura wants you to read this
Nigeria has many uncountable problems and none of them is early marriage. As a matter of fact early marriage the solution to about half of our problems. For those who wonder if I can give my daughter(s) out in marriage at the age of 9 or 13, I tell you most honestly, I can give her out at the age of 6 if I want to and its not your business. This is because I am a Muslim and I follow the example of the best of mankind, Muhammad ﺻَﻠَّﻰ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﻭَﺳَﻠَّﻢَ . 
In Islam, marriage is not only about sex, it is about family and helping one another in achieving their goals, which is the attainment of Paradise. In Islam, a girl can be given out in marriage as early as 6 years old, but consummation of the marriage can only be done when the girl becomes physically mature and she gives her consent to it because unlike English law, it is not permissible for a man to rape his wife in Shari'ah Law. 
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So what can anybody tell me? ~ I live in a city where young girls at the age of 12 have already become serial fornicators and cannot count the number of men they've had sex with. ~ I live in a City where primary school children disvirgin themselves behind toilets on Valentine day. ~ I live in a city where young girls flood the street at night looking for men that would give them N500 to have sex with them. ~ I live in a city where parents send their daughters out overseas to prostitute and send dollars down. ~ I live in a City where Government officials pick undergraduates from University car parks with Coastal Buses to wild sex parties. ~ I live in a city where abortion is so common that even a Chemist store owner can perform abortion with just N2,500. 
These are your daughters, and this should worry you and not Yerima's private matters. So ask me again why I support early marriage and I will slap the Jinni out of your head''.
Senator Ahmad Sani Yarima God bless
So many of you may be surprised I'm saying this but I don't think the #ChildNotBride campaign/protest is necessary... I saw some people tweeting and putting up photos with captions like "Give a child education not ejaculation"  and "Give a child pen not penis" This is arrant nonsense! Very cheap rhymes. I don't think any sane man will marry a 9 year old girl to have sex with her so she will bear children for him, manage his home and cook for him... I gave an instance what if in a case where a man needs to marry someone to secure a family relationship with another family so he can be able to will some of his properties to her and her family, there are so many instances that can make one marry a child. This thing has been in existence for so many years infact I didn't know it was illegal before. Why are people making noise and trying to bring down heaven? I guess is "follow the trend" issue.

In most cases when the small girl is married off, they stay with their parents till they are of age and besides there is a word like "divorce" in the dictionary that is if the girl in question is not interested in the marriage when she grows up!. Her parents should be wise enough to decide if they want to give out there daughter or not! if they decide to for some kind of reason its non of our damn business! Ah ah! this noise is totally uncalled for please... 

9 comments:

  1. i see reasons with u bro

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  2. Potrix if I slap u eh, u'll think wiv ur brain next tym. Hve u tot abt d implications of early marriage? WTH are u even sayn sef? D problem wiv naija is nt marriage, but d system. D govt shud fnkk abt sumfn else jare nd nt child marriage. Nigeria will neva move foward wen d sytem has failed those its meant 2 proect. We shud b fnkn ov a way 2 make naija beta nd as regards dt, childmarriage shudnt b an issue. Bsyds, removn d age limit on child marriage is more ov a religious decision, nd since nigeria is a secular state wiv various religions, d decision shud b secular nd shudnt favour muslims alone. After all, nt every1 is a muslim. Mtcheeeeew!!!

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    1. You are a Christian! fine and good you can continue with ur Christian practices and decide not to give out your daughter but leave those who wants to give out their own daughter for their reason! its their palava and not yours in anyway

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  3. It's nt their palava, it's OUR palava. Stop talkn like an illiterate biko. Wat happened 2 ONE NIGERIA??? Nd these children, dnt dey have a say? Dey shud b allowed 2 choose whoever dey wanna get married 2 nd not tied off like goats nd sent offf 2 d houses of men old enuf 2 b their grandfada.they shud chart their oown course, nt forced into d path written 4 dem by senator yerima nd his likes. We're in d 21st century 4 cryyn out loud. Lst tym I checked, nigerian children still hve their fundamental human rights!

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    1. How old was Bianca when Ojukwu married her? my point is simple things can turn out right stop painting it like its the highest evil! parents should be wise enough to make a good choice for their daughter cos all parents wants the best for their child

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  4. Read n Digest. Yerima is right!!!

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  5. Hmmmm.....Na wa oo! Dis country is dead sha. God protect us ooo

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  6. dia is some sense in what POTRIX is saying but it is still not enough reason to marry off an innocent girl

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  7. Som1 shul nt use his religion to generalise issues! If u want to giv out ur child even at birth,do it bt shul nt b constitutional.

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